a first date - what to do!
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Aim to be fun and relaxed on the first date -
this will make it easier for you to be yourself and give you a clearer
picture of the other person. Take things slowly and don't worry if
things don't turn out as expected - experience is always the best
way to learn! We've put together a few starters.
10
top tips for a first date (and
subsequent ones!)
1) Never be late (men!!) - give yourself enough time - get ready
early.
2)
Relax - dating should be "fun". On a first
date - be easy going -a great person to hang out with. With dates, too
serious too soon is a good way to put someone off!
3) Be confident! If you're not feeling 100% on your first
date, behave as if you are! Don't put yourself down - have reason to
be confident - you're a Christian!
4)
Never make assumptions - always look for the good in the other
person.
5) Make eye contact and smile! - stay alert and interested
6)
Refrain from telling your date everything - save something for
later!
7)
Accept/give compliments - it' shows that you're confident!
8)
Emphasise
your similarities and avoid being dismissive of things the other
person says or feels strongly about.
9)
Discuss problems with someone you know well - not a first date!!
10)
A fist date golden rule. . .
Do not look for things to go wrong. If you say "Im going to loose"
- even to yourself, It may well become a reality. A winner talks positively
from the start! (remember David and Goliath?)
First date conversation tips - see
Good
Conversation Tips & Advice
Make sure you're up on as many current affairs as
possible and do as many interesting things as you can between now and
the next time you meet up! You'll then have loads to talk about. Before
you meet, remember what you learnt about the other person
the first time you
met. You'll be able to ask questions and
enjoy listening to the answers (people like talking about themselves!).
Also, if you want a second date - showing how attentive you are will
leave a great impression!
and
to finish
. . .
better to end the date too soon than too late! This could
be a challenge as it might be tempting to stay in each company indefinitely!
Pick a good moment to end the episode - preferably on a high - so that
you'll both be eager to meet up again!
Try this for more first date advice....
First Date
tips & advice - written by a lady!
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